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Errol Flynn posted a condolence
Sunday, May 10, 2020
I was saddened to hear about Richard passing. We had some good times at Websters .. I always admired his knowledge. He knew it all .. yes he did.
He has some great kids. Dicky Judy, Rose, Sally..
Sincerely Errol Flynn..
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Rosemary Cosselmon Posted Jun 20, 2020 at 1:02 PM
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M.D.Ruston lit a candle
Tuesday, November 28, 2017
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RIP Uncle Dick ,I will miss our phone conversations . Say hello to my dad for me/
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Sharon Terino posted a condolence
Monday, November 27, 2017
I was deeply saddened when I learned of the death of your father, Judy. I immediately thought back to memories of his warm smile and sensitive eyes. That special gaze he had and his gentle laugh - as though he knew a little something that we didn't! I always enjoyed seeing him and your mother. And I'll always remember the way he looked at you, Judy, with such pride. Besides knowing him as your dad, I also had the privilege of working for him at Websters, which was my very first job. He was kind and patient with me and taught a solid work ethic. May you and your sisters and your brother gain inner strength from all the precious memories and rejoice in his love - and in His love.
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sally osborne posted a condolence
Monday, November 27, 2017
My dad will be greatly missed, nothing ever plays out the way you think it will. I was tied up with my recurrent training with my job, and needed just 3 days with no distractions to get thrue it. I thought my dad was ok and would hang in there until I was done and then focus on him. I was mistaken. I thought that I would have a conversation with him the morning of his passing, but didn't get the chance. I don't like the fact that my job, which he was proud of me having got in the way of a really important conversation, and always has in the past 20 something years. I hope he knows that he was important to me and I was going to try to fix his problem , I just needed a few more days, which we didn't get. With my mom we had months to prepare for her illness and her death, with him we had nothing. I know he was 85 and lived a full life, but not having the opportunity to help him out of ny I'm very sorry for.
We always had a special bond, I was his 28th Birthday present, so every year it was our birthday.
He was a great Dad, and loved his kids so much. MY greatest memories when we were in grade school was him pulling us out of school to go visit the Farm in Gilbertsville and he had a bunch of sandwiches packed for our "picnic". He also made fudge when we young.
He taught us a great work ethic, and we grew up with a family business work ethic, which I know has helped us with our adult lifestyles. I will regret not taking the time to talk to him that one day, but I know he knows I didn't mean that, circumstances got into the way. Love you dad, and I hope you give our mother a great big kiss xxooxx love sally
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Susan Conley LaGow posted a condolence
Sunday, November 26, 2017
Dearest Judy and family,
I was so saddened to hear the news of the loss of your father. My heartfelt condolences to you all. What a wonderful man he was and I know he will be missed. I feel fortunate to have known him.
I so enjoyed going to Webster's Dairy to see your father, it had such a friendly vibe. My happiest memory of your father was when you and I would bicycle to Webster's, belly up to the soda counter and order a hot fudge sundae each. Your dad would not hold back on the generosity of hot fudge he would pour into our sundae glasses. They were by far the best hot fudge sundaes I've ever consumed. Your father was happy to see how much we enjoyed our sundaes, every drop of them.
I know you and your family have so many treasured memories of him. Make sure to continue to share them with each other.
Much love to you,
Sue
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Sunday, November 26, 2017
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Rosemary Cosselmon lit a candle
Saturday, November 25, 2017
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Alex Cosselmon posted a condolence
Saturday, November 25, 2017
I have no vivid memories of my grandfather like all of the rest. He would call the house phone and I would talk. He would ask about the dogs and if everything were all right and I would respond with an assuring “yes”. I really never had a firm or full relationship with my grandfather because I would never see him. I do however remember fond memories of being in his house or going to Gumbo Limbo. And to clarify what I mean about how I didn’t have a “full relationship” with him. I mean, when you’re young and going through all of these trips and socializing, one tends to forget it all when getting older. At this age I am at now, I will remember more easily what happened in my earlier years. But to continue, I remember going down to his house and playing with his coin dispenser (the thing that looks like it belongs in a casino). I also remembered a very fond member that lived in his house, you can guess who it may be… The answer is Daisy! That dog was so nice and so friendly (not towards Bridget though, hehe). I remember a lot of stuff from his house and quite frankly, some of the trips that we went on. But now is more important…
When my grandfather was up here he introduced me to what he did when he was young. His stories combined with what my parents knew, made me want to stay at the dinner table and not go to my precious video games. Their stories just captivated me! About what happened around the restaurant and during the winter, absolutely hilarious! He also talked about his stance and observations on politics and about history. The most comical memory I have is when I was with my tutor and he was out on the porch. He appeared at the glass and started making funny faces and it was so hard keeping it together! My grandfather was straightforward, when he talked with me and didn’t measure his words with me. He was very direct. I loved hearing about his life. And let me tell you, if I had known he was not coming back… I would have spent a lot more time with him. Other kids have the sensation of going to their grand parents house and doing all of that jazz, however I will never experience that. He will be remembered greatly and I will cherish his dog and his watch and that beautiful pocket-knife for ever.
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Debbie Caruso posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 21, 2017
Thinking back, I only have beautiful memories of our times together. I met Richard through Judy back when Merissa and Micheal were attending Spanish River Christian School with my two children, Danielle and Richie. It was a very busy special time in our lives, often a whirlwind of activities with the kids and family. Richard was a person who would walk into the room giving everyone a instant calming feeling. He would quietly sit down and look deep into your eyes and take the time to listen and sort out your passions and concerns. His energy and compassion would lift you into his world of peace, laughter and love. It was truly contagious. He loved life and lived it with gratitude. His family came first but he always made his friends feel like family as well. I will never forget his bear hug greetings. The kind where you would close your eyes and hoped he would never let go. I will miss him dearly.
Lots of Love to all of the family,
Debbie Caruso
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Betty and Bud Foufos lit a candle
Monday, November 20, 2017
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Betty and Bud Foufos posted a condolence
Monday, November 20, 2017
Judy and Family,
We are sorry for your loss. Your dad and mom raised a lovely family. Reading about him here describes a caring man who knew how to embrace a balanced life. I’m sure he will be dearly missed.
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Merissa posted a condolence
Monday, November 20, 2017
I remember fishing and biking in the park in Boca near grandpa's house. We always thought alligators were living in the water and grandpa would still get out the fishing rod. and sit right at the pond’s edge. He would always make amazing scalloped potatoes and my favorite, goulash. I learned most of my cooking abilities from him, most notably how to make a roux- for some reason I always think of that particular lesson out of all the things he taught me. Maybe because something so simple can make such a big difference! When we first moved to Bend, he snuck up on me in broad day light when I was watching a scary movie and he got a kick out of it. He'd always buy donuts- especially on thanksgiving every year in Fresno. We'd always take every chance to leave the house and buy some sweet treat before thanksgiving dinner. I will always remember my flight from Miami with him- I was going home from Grenada and he happened to be flying out to California from Miami and we both had the same connecting flight. I told him about pursed lip breathing in COPD patients and he acted like that just about changed his life. He had so many medically related questions while we sat in the terminal. We then got on the airplane and he proceeded to talk as loud as possible about world history! I remember sitting on the bench in front of our Boca house where he attempted to teach me to tell time when I was younger. I have him to blame for my addiction to sleeping with a fan on the loudest possible volume no matter the temperature and the smell of Vicks will forever bring him to mind. I am sure I’ll carry that legacy onto my future grandkids!! I remember his yard had aloe vera and we'd lay on his bed covered in the thick slime after coming home as red as lobster. Not sure why it's these moments that come to mind, but I am glad they do. Lots of memories with him and I pray that the Lord uses his life and passing for His purpose. Please pray for his kids, my mom, aunts and uncles. I know that the Lord’s peace and grace can console their hearts and minds and more so change their lives for the better even when something like this happens. This comes to mind.. 1 Corinthians 15: 55 O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?” …but thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your toil is not in vain in the Lord.
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